Comments on: It’s your Responsibility!!!

By: Moushumi

Moushumi — Sat, 12 Dec 2009 14:46:50 +0000

my god!! i can see where d words come from….cheater….saare mere dialogues utha k daaal diye…well ppl if u’ll don knw…half of tyhis blog is based on me…but the best point is half of wat he’s written is true and the rest he needs to face once he’s actually goin thru a problem where no matter wat attitude he has, He’l say shit yaar..i wish the outcome was diff…..Im in a place whr its a different culture dan in the corporates and trust me spending every day of my life becomes tough…but im still living it…coz a decision i take will make amends to several lives-the major being my parents. Its easy to say its ur decison but in an Indian parentage, you just cant do wat u want always. ur parents contribute a lot to wat u have become so they want an equal say in ur decisions..and trust me they arent wrong…I may crib abt my work but at the end of the day im doin it coz i have to snf probably coz i don have a choice, but i agree wid Varun wen he says dat its probably my way of destressing my problems…nd well i will look frwd to the time this guy gets flustered and fed up wid his job!!!i knw u too well u will get bored and start cribbing…just give it a few days..u’ll see…its my promise.

By: Mayank

Mayank — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 18:53:44 +0000

Debatable post.

Well, there are multiple things to be kept in mind while dealing with frustration in workplace issue. While I do agree that attitude does matter, it does not come to your rescue every time.

Besides, some people are just habitual about cribbing. “This is nor right, I dont like it, it should be this way, it should not be this way etc etc etc.”
It is also important to keep in mind that life is not a bed of roses. Difficulties will pop up, try to obstruct your way. Life will be always challenging you. But hey, thats life. Everyone I know has at least some problems, however small or big they may be, but they are there.
Its upto you to be strong and prove yourself a winner. When you are at your workplace, the problems there are ought to be there. Its very NORMAL and life like. Its like a routine. Why should one be ALWAYS complaining about everything? Just take them as a part of life, face them, and get on with it.

Also, I dont think that leaving the job and switching to something else will work. Sure, switching from something you hate to somethiong you love will give you relief, but if one is assuming that you wont have anything to rant about, sorry! Thing is, problems are going to be there as well. Even if you do something you immensely love. If I love blogging and tomorrow I want to become a pro blogger (which I dont BTW), I can get frustrated about a lot of things even though I love it. There will always be plenty of things to be unhappy about.
If I decide to become a total vella, even then I can assure you, I will find a lot to crib about.
We always crave for more, the greed never spares the human soul. Thats where our dis-satisfaction arises from. So I will always want more, want the things to be my way -> which is not possible every time. Result: Me ranting about my life. Vicious circle.

So its not all about learning to be happy, its about realizing that life is not a honeymoon, not always.

By: Raph

Raph — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 16:12:03 +0000

Obviously, i can’t demotivate anyone, that is beside the point of anyone influencing anyone….and besides you haven’t heard the story of the zen master…

By: P@$$iØÑ\/@i(3H@\/

P@$$iØÑ\/@i(3H@\/ — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 15:46:50 +0000

@Raph, Dont wory bro i fully agree with the quote that says "Don't let anyone make you feel that you don't deserve what you want" I am fully motivated and charged u cant demotivate me..

By: Raph

Raph — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 15:43:20 +0000

@P@$$iØÑ/@i(3H@/, Chalo atleast you acknowledge it as a plan, attitude is such a malleable concept, as your well wisher the best of luck with this positive reinforcement, and don't let any cynical bastard like me tell you otherwise, wait for my post on this you have inspired me....

By: P@$$iØÑ\/@i(3H@\/

P@$$iØÑ\/@i(3H@\/ — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 15:37:07 +0000

@Raph, Boss this is not a plan, This is just an ATTITUDE with which i plan to move ahead, i am not saying life will be perfect, it will be tough but i'll try to keep a positive attitude and will try to get out of those problems.. I don't know if it will be possible or not bt will definitely try..

By: Raph

Raph — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 15:32:02 +0000

@P@$$iØÑ/@i(3H@/,
When you are dealing with cliche’s and pop psychology…there can be no rational discussion, you are writing about life from an idealist’s pov. Nothing is ideal, and so is the attitude of people, you know mike tyson once said, that “Everyone has a plan ’till they get punched in the mouth” and then all the plans are out the window, well gera babu the bout has not even begun and you already have a plan.

By: P@$$iØÑ\/@i(3H@\/

P@$$iØÑ\/@i(3H@\/ — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 15:15:30 +0000

@Raph, Varun you are right, i am not saying one should just take everything happily and should stop moving forward. All i am saying is move ahead with a smile.. Discomforts will be there but if you have a negative attitude you cant overcome those discomforts.. Stay confident and smile and success will be yours....

By: P@$$iØÑ\/@i(3H@\/

P@$$iØÑ\/@i(3H@\/ — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 15:12:18 +0000

@Pawan, Absolutely right example bro!! i mean when you know u have to stay at a particular place then why cant you spend that time happily!!! Thanks for motivating words...

By: Raph

Raph — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 15:10:02 +0000

@P@$$iØÑ/@i(3H@/,
Okay man, i’m all for walking the talk….just that your saying that just be happy…that is a lot to ask from anyone, the adage goes need is the mother of invention, i say today discomfort is the mother of invention. so be uncomfortable and move forward…