FRIENDSHIP – What is it exactly???
March 30 2009 03:07 pm | my life
Yes you read it right i am figuring out what friendship is. All my previous posts are about love and life but for the first time a post about friendship and not just some ordinary post a post that seeks to know what is FRIENDSHIP.
I know all of you must be thinking how can i ask what friendship is when i am the one who keeps on saying it the best relationship we have on earth, Its something more than love even right?
Well a recent incident just made me think a lot about it, so when you talk about a friend does that mean someone who knows all about you, who’s always there for you and you say that you know each other so well that anything that on friend does can never make the other friend go mad…
Well think over it again… and think about the times when you do something and get scolded by your best friend that this is wrong, you shouldn’t have done that or don’t do this and stuff and then one day your friend does the same thing…
Remember the times when your friend does something and you get irritated and they’ll tell you to be a sport and when one day you do something and they get mad, i wonder now where did that mantra they used to keep telling you “Be a sport”
Still the same question what exactly is friendship.. its nothing but shit!!!
Does friendship means you throw a glass full of ice tea on your friends face, when he has done nothing… well yes you can but only if you can throw it and sit there and laugh over it, that’s called being a sport and not that you throw it and then you walk away making a mockery of your dearest friend in front of total strangers who will start looking at you as if you have done a blunder…
Whatever it is, friendship doesn’t give anyone the right to make such a fun of me in public… and i don’t care how close you are to me i don’t take shit from any one…
I am sorry but You can’t just do something like this and say sorry and blame it on some reason that even you are not bothered about…
Friendship is still a beautiful word but not that good of a relation, even if it is I DON’T GIVE A DAMM!!!
P.S:- Now don’t just fill up the comments section with essay’s about friendship, Theoretically its really a very precious relation because people can write books and make 10 bloody seasons of TV shows and earn millions.. Be realistic and write practically..
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UPDATE:- When i say that words have power i really mean it, and its not that only a selected people have that power but actually all of us… all it takes is some serious emotions, if you really feel something from the core of your heart you can turn it into words too…
After all this happened my mind started working with double speed and the fire that i had inside me was fueling it.. I needed something to ease me and like always my blog was the first thing i thought about and i wrote all this shit here…
But an email just changed everything, every word in that mail touched me and my mind which was on fire has gone blank…. Friendship its such a difficult thing, you can’t even stay angry for long.. your friends won’t let you even..
You can spend your entire life but still you wont be able to figure out what friendship, love, and relationship is!!!
Don’t know what should i write now.. all i can say is FRIENDS you are my life!!!
P.S:- I won’t forgive you until i throw a glass full of ICE TEA on you…
and sorry readers for what i wrote about the 10 seasons of the show F.R.I.E.N.D.S. i just love that show…
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