~IT’s My L!Fe~

• Be Self confident and not over confident…
• Keep in mind you can’t just know it all.. give yourself time and that in turn will give you experiance…
• A lot of people will come in your path of success not all will support you, some will have a positive attitude and some will always DeMotivate you.. Keep away from those -ve Idiots…
• you never loose, even if you fail you gain experiance.
• Learn Learn & Learn
• Thankyou, Please & Sorry are really the 3 Golden words… Never let go an oppurtunity to say thanks {Reward Xtra miles in case you are an HCLite}to the person who helps you, Never keep those sorry’s in your heart and please use please life will be much more comfortable.
• Don’t let the pressure destroy you…
• Do not let time slip through your fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to you, those close to your hearts.
• Stay calm, confident and Smile always…

Remember its only when you know the Game in & out you can change the rules & for that you need time.. Don’t over expect from yourself..

This article is dedicated to All my friends who are working now or have just started their career and to all my friends who are in the final years of their College life an will soon be market ready!!

With just 4 months of experience in a Telecom company and 1 week in an IT company,  many of you will say i am no one to write this , in that case take this article about the ATTITUDE with which i want to start my career.

Your immediate response will be “Spend a few months in this industry and then we’ll see whether you crib {complain} or not!!” or “Every organisation is not the same, maybe you are lucky”

Well guys to start with why is it that we have no end to Expectations, i understand that we all should have expectations from our life, our organisations, our managers but does that mean nothing in this world meets your expectations..

I mean you enter a new place and start complaining that they don’t pay well, they don’t have good chairs or good infrastructure, they didn’t ask me what field i am interested in or on what platform we want to work on.

Tell me something, When you entered that organisation, who pushed you in, wasn’t it your choice.. And if you are not happy what are you still doing there???

I am not saying LIFE is perfect and why should it be , If  its perfect then its not reality  and i am sure you’ll agree with me when i say everything that happens in our life is because of  the choices that we make…

For Instance :- Your colleague asks you to take a break and to go out for some fun at a time when you are supposed to be in office and you say Yes, When you come back and your Manager kicks you out {i am sure he wont do that!!!} then who’s responsible for it Your colleague or YOU!!!

Obviously  Yours because you made that choice…

I AM  RESPONSIBLE…

FOR  WHO  I  AM…

FOR  WHAT  I  DO….

FOR  WHAT  I  HAVE….

So when its all your choice then why crib about the consequences, Why blame others for it.

But not everything is in your control and that you should be happy about everything. NO, you can criticize too and give your opinion  but don’t just dig problems and bug everyone in the organisation they are already loaded with lots of them,  search for a SOLUTION!!!

Tell me what is the difference between you and 1000’s of other Engineers who pass out every year.. Nothing,  So before you ask for more reach a point where you can be differentiated with those 1000’s of other Engineers…

“IT IS THE ATTITUDE WHICH DECIDES THE ALTITUDE OF CAREER NOT JUST YOUR KNOWLEDGE”

The road to SUCCESS —

• Have a positive Attitude – start your day with a smile {Hope my Good morning SMS brings a lil smile on your Face}
• Time management
• Don’t forget your values
• Have a clear mission for life
• Control your reaction – remember you can’t stop events to occur in your life what you can control is your Reaction in those events which will determine the outcome…
• Don’t loose out on LIFE.

The last point goes out to those friends who are over busy with their professional life that they don’t even have time for Family and Friends… Remember Life is like that Race we used to have when we were very young, in which we had to run with a spoon in our mouth containing A marble stone..

If the stone falls there’s no point of coming First!!!

Hope you understand what i wanted to say!!!

REMEMBER – ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS ,  HAPPENS  BECAUSE YOU MADE A CHOICE…  ITS YOUR LIFE AND NO BODY CAN FORCE YOU TO DO WHAT YOU DON’T WANT TO!! THE DAY YOU SAY “WHAT THE FUCK AM I DOING HERE IN THIS PLACE” or ON A MONDAY MORNING “DAMM.. ITS MONDAY AGAIN” THAN TRUST ME FRIENDS ITS TIME TO PUT DOWN YOUR PAPERS AND SAY “SAYONARA”

P.s:- I hope i can meet my expectations and can carry on with this attitude towards SUCCESS!!!

[SELF  COMPOSED]

Kaash Koyi Hota

Kaash koyi Hota ,  Jo Samajhta is Dil Ko..

Baarish ki pehli boond

aur

Sard subah ki pehli dhoop ko…

Samajhta un ehsason ko , Jo shabdon se baiyaan nahin hote..

Aur

Samajhta us ek aansun ko jo aankhon tak aata to hai , par kahin kho sa jata hai…

Kaash koyi Hota ,  Jo Samajhta is Dil Ko..

Dil mein chupe hazaroon armaano ko,

Un ankahee khayalon ko,

Mujhko aur meri Tanhayi ko…

Kaash koyi Hota ,  Jo Samajhta Is Dil Ko , Is shayeri ko. ..

My sincere apologies to all my readers for not updating my blog for a long time.. but that doesn’t mean i have stopped thinking or my heart has stopped working…

As i always say Whenever a thought strikes your heart and soul never let it go waste convert it into words…

Since its a little difficult to blog then and there, i tried to convert those thoughts in SMS and here are a few msgs that i composed whenever i found myself lonely…

Kehte hain Duniya simat si gayi hai… Chund taaron se judh si gayi hai…
Par is mobile aur net ki duniya mein, humne to khudko bheed mein bhi tanha paya hai..
Do ghoont pine ke baad rota paya hai..
Kisi ke intezaar mein waqt ko bhool gaye hain, Intezaar kiska hai ab to yeh bhi bhool gaye hain…
Hamari nazaron se dekho duniya bikhar si gayi hai, Taaron ke jaal mein Fus si gayi hai…

Yeh Rishte bhi kitne ajeeb hote hain na??? Kab kisse jud jaye iski khabar hi khan hone dete hain… Kis baat se toot jayen yeh kisko pata… Ehmiyat inki tab pata chulti hai jb kisi se toot kar kahin aur jate hain…

Whenever we do something in LIFE , The word “IF” always raise so many questions and possibilities making it too difficult to take a decision..
But that’s what “L-IF-E” is right???

Ek bade se shaher ke ek chote se kone mein baithe huye, Jub in aankhon se nikle ek aansun se maine pucha ki Tum kyun aayee..
Jawab aaya ki ek dost ko yun akele dekha to saath dene chule aayee…

Sitting on the steps outside the mess.. I asked myself  ”Am I Lonely???”  My heart said “NO”..
Sitting in my room, near the Full moon.. I asked Again, My heart said “NO”..
Sitting at home Mile away from Friends, Was i lonely, “NO”
What has changed Now.. Why is everything Different..
Is it the weather, or the place.. Is it me or the My Friends..
Maybe its the work that creates the space.. Which is difficult to displace…
What is wrong with me for Heaven’s sake.. Its a mobile not a personal Page!!!

[SELF COMPOSED]

[DEDICATED TO PEOPLE WHO ARE OVER BUSY WITH THERE JOBS AND DON'T HAVE TIME FOR FRIENDS]

“Kaash Thum Jata Waqt Wahin..

Na aate hum is mukaam kabhii…

Saath rakhte the jin doston ko..

Aaj waqt hi nhin un kamino ko…

Taras gaye hain..

CCD ki coffee pine ko…

wo toot toot kar chese burst khane ko…

2 ghoont pine ko..

Aur chuski ki chusk lene ko…

Saath baithkar 2 min batiyane ko..

Thakee maar maar ke hasne ko…

Wo raat raat bhar jagne ko…

wo class mein sone ko..

Aur Daaru pikr rone ko…

Wo Janamdin par pitne ko..

Aur IP pe multicast karne ko…

The kabhi zindagi ke boss humhi..

Aaj boss aur office zindagi ho gayi…

Office ki coffee me wo mithas nhin..

IP to hai par muticast nahin..

Baaton mein jazbaat nahin..

Haste to hain par Ab wo baat nahin..

Ab wo baat nahin…

Kaash Thum Jata Waqt Wahin..

Na aate hum is mukaam kabhii…”